"When you understand you have an enemy
that has hated your guts ever since you
were a child, it will help you not to blame
this stuff on God. Anyhow, the facts are it
happened, we are hurt that it happened,
and part of us believes Jesus could have
done something about it and didn’t. That
is why we need to forgive him. We do so
in order that this part of us can draw near
him again, and receive his love."
Jesus is in control of all things.
Jesus has a purpose for everything He does or allows.
Therefore, Jesus allowed everything to happen to me that has happened to me.
Therefore, Jesus has a purpose for allowing to happen to me everything that has happened to me.
Therefore, everything bad that has happened to me is meaningful and purposeful.
Check my fallacies.