I have a need to ignore excellent people. To me, they are the greatest. They shine so brightly. I can barely talk when I'm around them, yet I want to be close to them.
I don't mind when people draw the attention of many people? I do find it frustrating when God places these people in my life, as if to hook me into relationship with them. Not only does this happen; but they also play hard-to-get, as if they were trying to befriend me to use me for a while before they drop me.
There was a program on KLOVE where they mentioned Charles Stanley's 7 traits of a good accountability partner. Apparently, the list did not specify whether such a person should be frustrating to deal with or not, even if he's trustworthy, godly, accepting, etc.
I don't like people who make me interested in relationship with them and then it turns out that their interaction style is incompatible and frustrating. Why does God put such people in my life? Just to see me suffer? Why do I even need such friends?