Richard, I may be a little late to the party, but I see you landed some pals. Even though this is way late, welcome to RHNet. It's a great place to thrive in The Walk by reading, commenting, and posting. I've posted under Generational Fathering (my group) and other parenting groups for some time. I've been "away" doing blogging and book writing, but will be returning to GF next week. My world may not be an attraction to yours, but you're here because God is doing something good (and probably long-awaited) in your heart and your life. If you’re into blogs, mine makes a good one to monitor if and when the issue of leaving a legacy as a father is of interest: GenDads my personal blog is WILD GRAY GOOSE. If you have a generational impact story, good or bad, I'd love to hear it for my book.