F.L.Ex: (Father's Leading By Example)
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Fathers talking to fathers about their walk with their children. A safe place for sharing triumphs and challenges as we seek to set a good example.
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Sounding the Battle Cry
At times I will feel so very focused in my actions, almost to a razor’s edge. And boy does that feel intoxicating. But, at other times, I will feel like such an impostor, so full of answers and so devoid of action. In my heart I know what is required of me, but by my deeds I demonstrate submission. Could I truly be this shallow in my determination?
Without sharing with other fathers, I know that I will probably just spin in circles, and never be the man that I am truly designed to be. So with that, I make this vow to this group. I will lay my soul wide open. You will see me in my rawest form. I only ask that you return the favor. I need you guys to stand with me. I need to know that this is not a lost cause. There are many battles to be fought, and many wounds to heal. This will not be easy or comfortable, but I assure you that the mission is righteous. I am sounding the Battle Cry, because it is worth fighting for.
Confidently Standing With You in Battle For Our Families,
& Firmly in HIS grip,
Todd Hilton
Discussion Forum
Trips of a lifetime 6 Replies
I would love for you to share some locations that you guys have visited with your children. What made this trip special? What type of activities did you do there? Post photos of your trip. Please inc…
Started by Todd Hilton. Last reply by Gary Taylor Aug 21.
Never Give Up 3 Replies
At times, as a father, I struggle to demonstrate the perseverance that I know God expects of me. I speak the words, to others, "don't give up on your dream", and then act differently in my own walk.…
Started by Todd Hilton. Last reply by Jim Stockman Feb 16.
Seasons Change 2 Replies
As the seasons change, are there any special events or outings planned for you and your child(ren)? Is busyness getting in your way, and if so how do you address it. Don't forget to take time to give…
Started by Todd Hilton. Last reply by Jones Doughton Nov. 8, 2009.
Family Structure 21 Replies
Please answer the following questions. 1. # of children with their sexes and ages 2. Marital status (if you feel like sharing) 3. # of Grands if any 4. # of step children 5. # of children still livin…
Started by Todd Hilton. Last reply by david (chosenson) Sep. 7, 2009.
Strong-willed son 5 Replies
I have a 10-yr old son who has many great qualities but is extremely strong-willed and really gets "stuck" on something and can't let it go usually until I get really frustrated and angry (or punish…
Started by Ed Kivett. Last reply by David Lin Aug. 22, 2009.
Map of Group Members 8 Replies
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Started by Todd Hilton. Last reply by Todd Hilton Jul. 18, 2009.
Are You An Office Dad? 5 Replies
At St. Mary's College in Moraga, California one summer day I walked by and stopped to read a plaque. Ed Ageno was the name on the plaque and the 6 paragraphs written by his daughter described his ill…
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Started by David Lin. Last reply by Jones Doughton Jun. 28, 2009.
Led by a child 4 Replies
How often have you found yourself acting as the student, as your children teach you an all-important lesson in life? God has entrusted 4 amazing young minds to my care. Each day I strive to guide the…
Started by Todd Hilton. Last reply by Randy (homesick) Blunt May. 15, 2009.
The Fathering Continues 3 Replies
I lost my dad this week. It hurts to the core. But He is still fathering me. I carry with me all the wonderful memories and advice he gave me. Just because he is gone physically, does not stop what h…
Started by Dan Payne. Last reply by Gary Taylor Apr. 2, 2009.
Let the games begin 1 Reply
Well, tis the season to start little league. With one child playing soccer, one playing baseball, and one in Dance class, you can imagine our schedule. Do you guys have any tricks to help navigate th…
Started by Todd Hilton. Last reply by Gary Taylor Mar. 14, 2009.
Works in Progress
As I drove out today to the soccer field where I was assigned to ref a men's soccer match, I began reflecting on how the role of a referee is similar to the role of a father, coach, and teacher of wh…
Started by Jeff Siemens Feb. 16, 2009.
Working without a net 5 Replies
I once heard Cameron Crowe say that he felt that he was a successful person because his parents would parent him without a fear of failure. I realize that this is something I strongly need to work on…
Started by Joseph. Last reply by Eric Wold Jan. 27, 2009.
Help! 3 Replies
One of my friends on the site has a friend that has entered Hospice with Colon Cancer!Let's go men!She needs our help,it's for The Helt Family.Please help me men of F.L.E.X. to stand up for a fellow…
Started by Tony Clay. Last reply by Andrew of the Antipodes Jan. 25, 2009.
Gifts with a purpose 1 Reply
Have any of you men given special gifts to your children? Have you passed on items that have had a special meaning to you. The symbolism passing on a Godly heritage often goes unnoticed. I have sever…
Started by Todd Hilton. Last reply by Jones Doughton Jan. 21, 2009.
Signs, Symbols, and Sayings 14 Replies
What are some impactful signs, symbols or sayings that you pass along to your children? These can be tangible or intangible. One example is that I begin and end each day by telling my children, " I a…
Started by Todd Hilton. Last reply by Allan R Jan. 18, 2009.
How to be a father without having children. 2 Replies
My wife and I are unable to have children. But that does not mean we can not be a father. As John teaches, everyone needs fathering and every man can father. There is, however a pain which runs deep…
Started by Dan Payne. Last reply by Jeff Siemens Jan. 18, 2009.
"Going to church" 7 Replies
Going to churchPosted by Jeff Siemens on November 3, 2008 at 1:41am in Prayer View Discussions Admin OptionsEdit Discussion Close Discussion Add Tags Delete Discussion Up till six years ago, one of…
Started by Jeff Siemens. Last reply by David Jan. 14, 2009.
In The Eyes Of An Adult
Today,my twin boys age 10 played their first basketball game today!The two play on opposite teams,but I had the opportunity to watch both games.It reminded me when I was their age,and how I was so ex…
Started by Tony Clay Jan. 11, 2009.
Family Is "KEY" To Your Maurity With Christ! 4 Replies
My Brother's,I would like to start of by saying that my love for you is limitless.Today,I spent some quality time with my 5yr.old.We had a "tea party",and I must say,I had the most enjoyable time tha…
Started by Tony Clay. Last reply by Eric Wold Jan. 4, 2009.
Sibling Rivalry 6 Replies
Fellow fathers - - - Am in need of some effective fathering strategies for dealing with the age-old problem of sibling rivalry. My 16 year old son continues to annoy his 11 year old sister with anyth…
Started by Jeff Siemens. Last reply by Jeff Siemens Jan. 2, 2009.
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Comment by Gary Taylor on August 21, 2010 at 5:47pm -
I'm Back. WE are back, Matt, me, Taylor, the 12.5 year old who showed fresh manhood across a pretty stiff challenge on our four-day wilderness packin.
The sun is cutting me out. I'm holding seats at the rodeo. Wirelss working but blind hunt and peck ain't. Go to our new blog, www.GENDADS.com to hear our "passage" story. Last two posts are a preamble and we'll follow with stoies and lessons from our on-trail notebook. We'd love you to subscribe.
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Comment by Gary Taylor on July 26, 2010 at 7:18pm
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REPOSTING this, bro, because I just re-read it and it seemed veyr appropriate. I know you won't let your guard down, I just don't want you to hold out your shield in the wrong direction. Prayers continue:
Oh, yeah, you're a target all right. Forget left and right political manipulators (well, don't "forget" them, just ignore the gapping wounds they try to inflict). Concentrate on the Enemy's whispers about the agreements he thinks he has with you. John must have been writing to you and me this morning in his Daily Reading (from Waking the Dead , 154-55): When we make those agreements with the demonic forces suggesting things to us, we come under their influence. It becomes a kind of permission we give the Enemy, sort of like a contract.
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Comment by Todd Hilton on July 26, 2010 at 2:01pm - Thank you guys for the encouragement. To the shock of all of the "Political Insiders" I have made it to a runoff. I was victorious over one of my opponents that had never been defeated and spent over 40K on his campaign. I asked for no donations and ran strictly on my character and my story. I need prayers for the runoff Aug 10th. Still Fighting On
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Comment by Maciej "The Mole" Pozniak on July 25, 2010 at 4:02pm - Maybe its an old chat :) and I wasn't in for a VERY long time, but as Gary said: NO COMPROMISE!!! Have faith and follow the LORD. It's a one way :)))
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Comment by Gary Taylor on May 31, 2010 at 9:20am
- Oh, yeah, you're a target all right. Forget left and right political manipulators (well, don't "forget" them, just ignore the gapping wounds they try to inflict). Concentrate on the Enemy's whispers about the agreements he thinks he has with you. John must have been writing to you and me this morning in his Daily Reading (from Waking the Dead , 154-55): When we make those agreements with the demonic forces suggesting things to us, we come under their influence. It becomes a kind of permission we give the Enemy, sort of like a contract.
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Comment by Todd Hilton on May 31, 2010 at 7:06am
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Comment by Todd Hilton on December 1, 2009 at 8:41am
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David,
The fight is not for the weak at heart. It seems like I am being attacked from all sides. Self-Doubt is my greatest enemy at the moment. I believe that the holidays shine a brighter light on my failings as a MAN. I try so diligently to remain focused on my role, and confident in my actions. And that's when the evil one starts sniping. Sometimes I can't even see it coming. I pray that God can see past my weakness and that HIS strength continues to flow my direction. May my example be one that makes the father proud.
Firmly in HIS grip,
Todd
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Comment by david (chosenson) on November 30, 2009 at 10:29pm - Hello to all the fathers out there....hope u are all blessed and staying strong in the fight for our families.
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Comment by Todd Hilton on September 2, 2009 at 7:55am
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Trying to spread the FLEX message. If you would like to partner with me and to help design and promote Fathers Leading by EXample as a resource, please contact me. I have heard God's call for me to be more active in promoting this. It is time for Fathers to step up and make a stand. I could see this turning into a group movement, that will empower and educate all involved. I pray that God will speak to those of you that will join me in making this happen. Fight ON.
Firmly in HIS grip, & Holding Tight
Todd
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Comment by Todd Hilton on August 24, 2009 at 8:18am
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Wren,
First, Welcome to FLEX.
Second, I don't know much about this "faith" but I would recommend a book by a brilliant Pastor "Jesus Among Other Gods" by Ravi Zacharias. He addresses in vivid detail the futility of other religions. Also, you may want to check out this link http://www.gotquestions.org/Bahai-faith.html .
I will see what else I can dig up and I will pray for God's clarity and wisdom to be with you brother.
Firmly in HIS grip,
Todd Hilton
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